Gratitude is a verb; it
is an action word!
By SharRon Jamison
I am grateful and I thank God that I don’t look like what I have
been through. I have suffered physical abuse that crushed my ribs and endured
verbal abuse that crushed my spirit. I have experienced plenty, and God knows
that I have also experienced lack. I have experienced good health and I have
also experienced sickness and debilitating depression. I have experienced just
a little joy, not much, and I have experienced great despair. Most of my life
and sometimes even now, I feel alone, misunderstood, isolated and disconnected
in ways that often scare me. But through it all and most of all, I am
grateful!! I have gratitude!
To me true gratitude is a verb; it is an action word. It is
sense of thankfulness that spurs me to perform, work, behave and conduct myself
in ways that tells God “thank you, much obliged”. It is a sense of appreciation
that motivates me TO BE, TO HAVE and TO DO. And many times, it is gratitude
that gives me the confidence to act fearlessly, boldly, inclusively, consistently
and lovingly. Why? Because gratitude
demands to be seen, felt, experienced and shared. To me, gratitude is a verb; it is an action
word!
What
does Gratitude REQUIRE of ME?
Gratitude
commands that I HAVE. It
demands that I HAVE patience with
people who feel low, less than, lonely and little. It demands that I HAVE empathy for those who feel invisible,
inaudible, insignificant and inadequate. It requires that I HAVE tolerance for those who love,
live, believe and celebrate differently. Gratitude demands that I HAVE mercy for those who make mistakes,
missteps, miscalculations and misinterpretations. It requires that I HAVE compassion for those who are
hurting, homeless, helpless and hopeless. It challenges me to HAVE peace in my heart, my home, my
community and in my world. Gratitude demands that I HAVE me….my back, my spirit, my health, my mind and my soul functioning
to the best of my ability. Gratitude requires that I HAVE! Because to me, gratitude is a verb; it is an action word!
What
does Gratitude REQUIRE of ME?
Gratitude
demands me TO BE. Gratitude requires that I BE an advocate for those who feel minimized, marginalized, disenfranchised
and unfairly criminalized. It demands that I BE a minister who preaches and proclaims that GOD loves all people
– gay, straight, black, white, brown, red, yellow, abled, differently abled,
poor, rich, sick and healthy - people. It demands that I share that God loves us
all - people from
downtown, from uptown and even people who are just low down. God is LOVE!
Gratitude demands that I BE passionate, precise and persuasive in my speech as I express
beliefs and positions that are unpopular, trivialized, chastised and
unconventional. Gratitude demands that I
speak up, speak out and speak often for those who are denied a vote, a voice or
a choice. Gratitude demands that I BE
courageous, consistent, committed and concerned about things that not only affect
me but also affect others. It requires that I BE powerful, persevering, passionate and purposeful in my life and
in the lives others. Even though it is not proper English, gratitude demands
that I BE. Because to me, gratitude is a verb; it is an
action word.
What
does Gratitude REQUIRE of ME?
Gratitude
requires that I DO. It requires that I DO justice to people who are not in my
clique, my clan, my community, my corner or in my country. It requires that I DO love, DO pray and DO empower the sick and shut-in, the
imprisoned and locked-in, and the labeled and held-in. It commands that I DO empowerment work to ensure that truth trumps tradition, virtue vetoes
violence, education eliminates enmity, fairness fosters friendships,
consideration cultivates the community, goodness guzzles greed and love lifts
life. Gratitude demands that I sometimes
DO more, sometimes DO less, but ALWAYs DO better. Because to me, gratitude is
a verb; it is an action word.
Gratitude also requires that I DO NOT. It requires that I DO
NOT get blinded by blessedness and seduced by success. It requires that I DO NOT get discouraged by my depression
and get sidetracked by my sicknesses. It requires that I DO NOT get impeded by my insecurities and intimidated by my
inadequacies. It requires that I DO NOT
get derailed by my doubts or discouraged by my detractors. It requires that I DO NOT get limited by lack or get lost
in luxury. It demands that I DO NOT
get frustrated by failure and faltered by falsehoods. It demands that I DO NOT let pessimism poison me,
toxicity tackle me, regrets retard me, shame stifle me, guilt gobble me or my mistakes
minimize me. Because gratitude is a verb; it is an action word.
God has been too good and too GOD to me. So I no longer just
want to count my blessings; I want to make my blessings count. Because
gratitude is a verb; it is an action word.
Hallelujah! Praise
God! Glory! And, amen!
Blessings!
SharRon Jamison
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Gratitude is a VERB. I love that! Show it, have it, be it, do it! You are a wonderful shinning example and I thank you for sharing this with us!
ReplyDeleteYvette D. B.
This is very motivating! Thanks for sharing SharRon !
ReplyDeleteThanks Yvette and Carla for reading! I so appreciate you taking the time to send me a message. A million thanks......
ReplyDeleteI love love that you included that gratitude predicates action! "...that I DO" so so true. That ideal seems to be overlooked at times when considering gratitude and what that holistically looks like! Thanks for sharing your insight and light!
ReplyDeleteEvening, SharRon!
ReplyDeleteSimply...I am grateful for you! Your posts are ever shining lights to blaze our trail and to lift us above whatever it is that we are facing. And you do it in such an engaging way. I walk and run with you, take off and fly with you!
Loving this line: "So I no longer just want to count my blessings; I want to make my blessings count." Mine also!
Sending you love & light for a sparkling week!